THE PROS AND CHALLENGES THAT COME WITH BEING SEXLESS!!

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Hey Beautiful People, SoulQueenWu Here! I miss you :). As some of you may know I have been celibate now for 4 years and a few months. I am very proud of myself and it is honestly one of the best decisions I’ve made in my life! It’s great, it’s commendable, you gain a new perspective on many things and it aids in taping into your truest self. You know…. all of that is cool but there are two facts I want you all to be aware of: 1. I’m not having sex 2. I want to have it! lol

Wanting to be celibate and engaging in this walk of celibacy does not rid you of the desire to have sex. We are sexual beings as humans and you should never beat yourself up for being human (there is a right time and place for alot of the things we desire).To be quite honest, my hormones are on 1000, I miss sex, I like sex, and some days I would like to have it. The reality is as you grow in this walk you become better at fighting your urges and the desire but based on MY EXPERIENCE, sex is still something I’d like to have, I’m just committed to this walk that has shown itself to be what is best for me.

Based of my experiences and the many messages I’ve been receiving I decided to shed some light on what I’ve learned (DISCLAIMER: This is information I’ve gained based on my own experiences). I realized this lifestyle is a tad bit overly fabricated, glorified and not too many people touch base on the reality of what it entails. It’s not easy to stop doing something you are used to doing but with TIME you’ll get accustomed to it! So whether you are a beginner, a veteran, or even interested in celibacy, I hope this helps.I think I owe it to myself and to you all to be real with you. Below are some pictures from the of the Pros & Challenges Covered  and the actual Video. If you have any questions, comments. or concerns never hesitate to holla at a playa *heart emoji* “Okay GURLFREEEND!”

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4 thoughts on “THE PROS AND CHALLENGES THAT COME WITH BEING SEXLESS!!

  1. Chuck Patterson says:

    Awesome video! Tough, but rewarding journey. Nice to see that you are conscious of your value, and your decisions reflect it. Many people will call you queen, some with good intentions, others with misleading ones, but you live as one with no need for validation from another person! Keep striving for greatness queen!

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  2. Courtney clarke says:

    Comment: Congrats. It’s truly commendable. & I understand that it must be difficult, but keep going… You’ve already come this far! lol.

    I guess the question is…
    Celibacy is abstaining or refraining from the physical act of SEX, correct? So… Cuddling, kissing, dry humping, masturbation, and all that other stuff would be ok? I’m just trying to fully understand the concept of it.

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    • SoulQueenWu says:

      Well it’s applied different ways for different people honestly .. But yes it is abstaining from the physical act of sex or sexual relations. In terms of cuddling, dry humping, masturbation etc.. I think that up to your own discretion, I wouldn’t encourage anyone to deny expressing themselves sexually but it’s just being conscious of what your doing, why your doing it and being aware of the seeds your planting.

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